"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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when a girl says "u must be very popular"

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what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"I know! I make Jesus Christ look like a pile of puke!'
 
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carlitos said:
what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me
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It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?
 
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Say: Come hang with me and I'll make you popular.
 
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It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.
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This is probably it. If she's playing games, it could be a sign that she is trying to draw you in.

There could be a chance that all the pictures with tons of chick was a turn off for her. In other words, she sees loads of competition and isn't up for that. But in the end, it's far better if a girl sees you as being desirable to friends and other girls than thinking she can have you all to herself. If she is the rare case that this totally backfired, move on and forget about her.
 
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carlitos said:
hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?
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Question for you.

If she's not that interested in you, why are you wasting your time chasing someone who doesn't like you? Do you really want a relationship with a women who doesn't like you enough to keep her plans with you, which will lead to her disrespecting you in the future because she doesn't like you that much?

Flaking is a direct result of LOW IL. Its because you didn't create attraction when you were interacting with her up to that point. So stop focussing on the flake and focus on what your doing wrong. Step up your game gentelmen.
 
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I'm even bigger in Japan.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Could mean you have a reputation. Nothing to worry about though, being popular has never been construed as negative so there's no real reason to worry about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Entropy4 said:
It probably means she thinks you're popular.

Don't over-complicate things.
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Good one.
 
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