when a girl says "u must be very popular"

[carlitos]

what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me

 

[Entropy4]

It probably means she thinks you're popular.

Don't over-complicate things.

 

[DonGorgon]

It probably means she thinks you're popular.

Don't over-complicate things.

LOL... Tell her - yeh some folks say that but your just trying to find a cool down to earth chick to have fun with...*boom* your in!

 

[Nighthawk]

"I know! I make Jesus Christ look like a pile of puke!'

 

[Mad Manic]

what does this mean?

does it mean that the girl has some insecurities deep down or is it some kind of sarcasm?

i got this when the girl that i was seeing saw a bunch of pics of me partying and chilling with other girls and after that she just started playing more and more games with me and basically stopped chilling with me

It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.

MM

 

[carlitos]

hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Say: Come hang with me and I'll make you popular.

 

[MotownMack]

It means you have passed the social proof test and you are in with a great chance.

This is probably it. If she's playing games, it could be a sign that she is trying to draw you in.

There could be a chance that all the pictures with tons of chick was a turn off for her. In other words, she sees loads of competition and isn't up for that. But in the end, it's far better if a girl sees you as being desirable to friends and other girls than thinking she can have you all to herself. If she is the rare case that this totally backfired, move on and forget about her.

 

[MacAvoy]

hmm ok..that sounds reasonable

but i guess because of that she's starting to play a lot of games with me and starting to flake on me a lot...i do think she's waiting for some kind of real talk..

how should i approach this now?

Question for you.

If she's not that interested in you, why are you wasting your time chasing someone who doesn't like you? Do you really want a relationship with a women who doesn't like you enough to keep her plans with you, which will lead to her disrespecting you in the future because she doesn't like you that much?

Flaking is a direct result of LOW IL. Its because you didn't create attraction when you were interacting with her up to that point. So stop focussing on the flake and focus on what your doing wrong. Step up your game gentelmen.

 

[BMX]

I'm even bigger in Japan.

 

[PRMoon]

Could mean you have a reputation. Nothing to worry about though, being popular has never been construed as negative so there's no real reason to worry about it.

 

[Sir I]

I'm even bigger in Japan.

:crackup:
I LOVE THIS ONE!!! nice!

 

[Real_Deal]

I'm even bigger in Japan.

I have the T shirt that says that.

 

[MacAvoy]

I'm even bigger in Japan.

:crackup:
I LOVE THIS ONE!!! nice!

I never got this at first until I seen you crack up. Sometimes I'm a little slow.

 

[DonGorgon]

"I know! I make Jesus Christ look like a pile of puke!'

what is shes a jew?

 

[DonGorgon]

Say: Come hang with me and I'll make you popular.

thats a good one...

 

[Mavrick]

It probably means she thinks you're popular.

Don't over-complicate things.

Good one.