illmatic1005
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when a girl tells u "all u want is sex'' in a way that sounds like every guy shes been with only wants sex..how can u show her different?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
When a girl says ''all u want is sex..."
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sounds like you are dealing with a girl that is claiming to be the prize, it is time you switched things around and you should be the person acting that way!
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do things with her in addition to bumping uglies.
MooseGod
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..."and all you want is my money."
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
yep
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Try telling her "Well all u want is commitement, stupid damn billion years of evolution...god i hate myself for being me..i'm gonna go cry".
See what she says.
See what she says.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DavenJuan
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umm..tell her "yeah..but only after you feed me"
MooseGod
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WE HAVE A WINNER!!!! :crackup:DavenJuan said:
billy_bronx
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say "thats not all i want"....and tell her what "other" things u want aswell as sex
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Luke Skywalker
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Reply: "Why? Are you saying you are good for something else?" in flirtatious, non-serious and inquisitive tone.
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
KontrollerX
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Another thing to do when b.s like this is said by some chick is to be very dismissive of her comment and say actually what I want more than anything in the world right now is some pizza.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
michaelhctam
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you can say........"Unless you can offer otherwise".
DavenJuan
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diddo...havent had a girl say this to me either
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.