illmatic1005
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when a girl tells u "all u want is sex'' in a way that sounds like every guy shes been with only wants sex..how can u show her different?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
When a girl says ''all u want is sex..."
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sounds like you are dealing with a girl that is claiming to be the prize, it is time you switched things around and you should be the person acting that way!
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do things with her in addition to bumping uglies.
MooseGod
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..."and all you want is my money."
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
yep
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Try telling her "Well all u want is commitement, stupid damn billion years of evolution...god i hate myself for being me..i'm gonna go cry".
See what she says.
See what she says.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DavenJuan
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umm..tell her "yeah..but only after you feed me"
MooseGod
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WE HAVE A WINNER!!!! :crackup:DavenJuan said:
billy_bronx
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say "thats not all i want"....and tell her what "other" things u want aswell as sex
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Luke Skywalker
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Reply: "Why? Are you saying you are good for something else?" in flirtatious, non-serious and inquisitive tone.
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
KontrollerX
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Another thing to do when b.s like this is said by some chick is to be very dismissive of her comment and say actually what I want more than anything in the world right now is some pizza.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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you can say........"Unless you can offer otherwise".
DavenJuan
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diddo...havent had a girl say this to me either
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.