illmatic1005
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when a girl tells u "all u want is sex'' in a way that sounds like every guy shes been with only wants sex..how can u show her different?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
When a girl says ''all u want is sex..."
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sounds like you are dealing with a girl that is claiming to be the prize, it is time you switched things around and you should be the person acting that way!
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
There is not really anything I can think of at the moment to overcome that statement. I would probably just say something such as: "Oh, you are such a hypocrite! Everyone all knows that you all you want from me is sex."
Most likely she will have either a shocked face, or she may be giving you a dirty look depending on how conceited she is. At this point, you finish that off with something a little bit more funny.. "Well, it's okay, I don't really blame you for feeling that way. I mean, if I were you.. I would want to have sex with me too."
That right there is gold.
Hope I helped.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Do things with her in addition to bumping uglies.
MooseGod
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..."and all you want is my money."
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
probably won't get you laid though. :crackup:
yep
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Try telling her "Well all u want is commitement, stupid damn billion years of evolution...god i hate myself for being me..i'm gonna go cry".
See what she says.
See what she says.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DavenJuan
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umm..tell her "yeah..but only after you feed me"
MooseGod
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WE HAVE A WINNER!!!! :crackup:DavenJuan said:
billy_bronx
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say "thats not all i want"....and tell her what "other" things u want aswell as sex
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Reply: "Why? Are you saying you are good for something else?" in flirtatious, non-serious and inquisitive tone.
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
Or - use a ****y and funny varient....
"There you go, why is it all you women can only think about sex, sex, sex, there you go you have to mention it, means you are thinking of having sex with me subconciously, it's amazing how your mind works - right now you are saying you want me to take you down."
KontrollerX
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Another thing to do when b.s like this is said by some chick is to be very dismissive of her comment and say actually what I want more than anything in the world right now is some pizza.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
Then you proceed to pick up the phone and order some takeout lol.
Chicks react this way to guys all the time so I say why not flip the script?
You know that whole flippant attitude when you wanna bring up something you find important to her and she's all like thats nice honey and continues brushing her hair or whatever.
Its the kind of disrespect or disregard of treating a certain concern or comment as though it was said from a child.
If the chick tries to press the issue after you get done ordering your pizza stop everything and tell her what she means to you and that if she ever questions your love for her again or brings up this question again you and she are done.
Believe Rollo did something like this with his wife where she hung up on him once and because he had it happen before by a woman that he loved and didn't call her on her disrespect he got screwed over.
Remembering that lesson he told his current wife if she ever hung up on him again they were done and he explained what happened to him before with a past girlfriend to his current wife and she understood and never hung up on him again after that.
Its all about maintaining the frame and your respect.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
michaelhctam
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you can say........"Unless you can offer otherwise".
DavenJuan
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diddo...havent had a girl say this to me either
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.