"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when a girl puts HER arm around my shoulder

princesimba

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yeah this. Not much, but i always had a problem with it. Just seems like the gender roles got reversed or something.

It also kind of automatically puts you in a more passive position. Especially when posing for pictures and general public image and what not. Putting your arm back around her waist doesnt seem to do the trick. Putting your shoulder back around her shoulder is just plain weird.

Preferably i would much prefer it if it was my shoulder around hers. But still, any solution to return the "position of power" back in my favour would be very welcome.

Thanks!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BMX

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1. Place your hand on her A$$ 2. Squeeze it HARD...3. SMILE
 

zinc4

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yes, you pick her up and slam her on your bed and dominate her during sex...she will like it very much even if she says otherwise

you could also move her hand to your ass and say that feels better
 

White Boy

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You're seriously worrying about some dumbass chit bro. the fact you're even worrying about some insignificat bullchit like who's arm is around who's, shows you're already passive

the solution to return the power is stop being paranoid about a girl who puts her arm around you
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Cremasta

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How tall are you?

If it worries you so much, go hit the gym so your shoulders are too big for them to get their arms around...
 
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