"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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when a girl puts HER arm around my shoulder

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princesimba

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yeah this. Not much, but i always had a problem with it. Just seems like the gender roles got reversed or something.

It also kind of automatically puts you in a more passive position. Especially when posing for pictures and general public image and what not. Putting your arm back around her waist doesnt seem to do the trick. Putting your shoulder back around her shoulder is just plain weird.

Preferably i would much prefer it if it was my shoulder around hers. But still, any solution to return the "position of power" back in my favour would be very welcome.

Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1. Place your hand on her A$$ 2. Squeeze it HARD...3. SMILE
 
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yes, you pick her up and slam her on your bed and dominate her during sex...she will like it very much even if she says otherwise

you could also move her hand to your ass and say that feels better
 
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You're seriously worrying about some dumbass chit bro. the fact you're even worrying about some insignificat bullchit like who's arm is around who's, shows you're already passive

the solution to return the power is stop being paranoid about a girl who puts her arm around you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How tall are you?

If it worries you so much, go hit the gym so your shoulders are too big for them to get their arms around...
 
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