"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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when a girl puts HER arm around my shoulder

princesimba

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yeah this. Not much, but i always had a problem with it. Just seems like the gender roles got reversed or something.

It also kind of automatically puts you in a more passive position. Especially when posing for pictures and general public image and what not. Putting your arm back around her waist doesnt seem to do the trick. Putting your shoulder back around her shoulder is just plain weird.

Preferably i would much prefer it if it was my shoulder around hers. But still, any solution to return the "position of power" back in my favour would be very welcome.

Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BMX

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1. Place your hand on her A$$ 2. Squeeze it HARD...3. SMILE
 

zinc4

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yes, you pick her up and slam her on your bed and dominate her during sex...she will like it very much even if she says otherwise

you could also move her hand to your ass and say that feels better
 

White Boy

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You're seriously worrying about some dumbass chit bro. the fact you're even worrying about some insignificat bullchit like who's arm is around who's, shows you're already passive

the solution to return the power is stop being paranoid about a girl who puts her arm around you
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cremasta

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How tall are you?

If it worries you so much, go hit the gym so your shoulders are too big for them to get their arms around...
 
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