"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When a girl pulls up her pants in front of you

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Yeah, I know you think I'm crazy but I have peeped this for a long time. Lets say you have a girl with a nice ass

in the past when I know a girl is not interested in me, she will pull down her shirt to cover up her ass

but today at work I have two girls who pull up there pants while they knew I was behind them watching (I was standing really close to each one of them today at different times) both are hot girls but one of the girls flirts with me heavy.

What I mean by pulling up their pants, the best way I can describe it is when they pull it up so you can see how big their ass really is

can anyone relate to what I'm saying, does this mean the girls are interested/want me to hit it or have I lost my mind,lol

feedback if you know what I'm talking about or have the slightest clue.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I had an orbiter who would let her pants just fall and fall until the cave got big enough for a fvcking bear to crawl into. I dunno, maybe some think their ass looks better in pants, but some think their ass looks better with no covering.

And chicks pulling up their pants can be super sexy, especially when that ass jiggles just a little bit
 

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They want their butt to appear more firmer, or they want to feel more comfortable in those pants.
 

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Yeah maybe I'm overlooking things, but one of the girls, I was sitting and I kid you not, she walks right in front with her ass in my face. This chick is a lesbian too.
 

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well, that lesbian is just teasing.... she wants you to try, so she can reject you. Lesbians are usually screwed up mentally as well. The others, no clue. But I'm not into big asses, so I may miss alot of that "pant pulling" stuff, because I just don't notice it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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See and that's the thing, I never give them reaction or try to pursue, maybe that's why they do it
 

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lol no, I examine women. They flaunt the part of their body they feel is the most attracted ie women with nice breast where low cut shirts or women with nice butts wear tight fitting pants.
 

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Lol, a girl did this to me tonight after I had just read it this morning. I don't think it was directed at me though, I think she just had to pull her pants up. There's a cute little wiggle involved though.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't be sure on this one. When confronted with insecurity - it always boils down to what you want, right?
So if you like that ass... might as well approach her and she'll drop more obvious hints.

I love anlyzing, but it's never gotten me anywhere.
 

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There's a girl at my work who does this on regular basis and she has a very nice ass. She'll stand up while she's on the phone, pull up her pants and stick her ass out. It's as obvious as can be as to what she's doing. The only problem is I don't know if she's showing off for me or the guy who sits next to me.
 

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Wow, I thought most guys knew about this. It's a subtle way of getting sexual attention from you. Some women will play it off by first pulling their pants up, then pulling the shirt down. I remember two nurses doing this in front of me, almost like they were in competition. The younger they are the more obvious. Older women are very practiced at this kind of thing and they're usually a little more slick about it.
 

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Find some strange woman and stare at her azz. Some women can sense your eyeballs I swear and they will pull their shirt down a tiny bit, not even enough to really cover anything. It's like they know ur looking without seeing you do it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i...jason think they can def be doing it on on purpose!!...but some times.just really pulling up the britches...nice to watch most..of the time tho
 

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I say enjoy the show! too bad this is at work or you could just ask the hot one out.

Edit to add, if there is a guy behind me that I think is attractive, I definitely want my clothes to look nice for his viewing pleasure.

I also wonder if the ones who pull their shirt down, do think you are attractive, but they also think their a$$ is too fat and dont want you to see it?

That is what I would do, in both cases
 

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Or maybe.... she is... just pulling up her pants.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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