The girl I was engaged to for 5 years, and whom I dated for nearly 7 years, never addressed me by my first name. Always "honey" or, occasionally, my surname, but never my first name (not until the night we broke up). Weird. Another girl I am interested in also has this strange habit... There's nothing unsual about my name, as it's quite a popular one, so what can it be? Has anyone any interesting theories on this?
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when a girl never uses your name
- Thread starter ulsterman
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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If your name is some really long name, I would understand but you say your name is a common one. Maybe she thinks she sounds stupid saying it. My girlfriend never calls me by my first name either. She does sometimes but not often.
HeyPretty
Don Juan
Meh.
If that's the only problem you had, you're a lucky bastard. lol.
Why not make a joke of it. Get one of those "Hello My Name Is:" tags, and wear it around the house. Point to it when she calls you SnuggleBumPuddingCake or whathave you.
If that's the only problem you had, you're a lucky bastard. lol.
Why not make a joke of it. Get one of those "Hello My Name Is:" tags, and wear it around the house. Point to it when she calls you SnuggleBumPuddingCake or whathave you.
I have an entirely different take on the name use. A lot of my co-workers will use my first name in the middle of a sentence because I believe they read somewhere that that helps establish rapport, etc. For those that I like a lot, it has the opposite effect because I believe the rapport is a given and the use of the name seems mechanical.
Another way I look at it is when your girl goes from leaving messages saying "Hi, it's [name]" to leaving messages like "Hi, it's me..."
Another way I look at it is when your girl goes from leaving messages saying "Hi, it's [name]" to leaving messages like "Hi, it's me..."
