"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When a girl never initiates the contact...

Mr. Me

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The reason it seems to work for Muscle Expert is that women are more prone to want sex with muscular guys anyway (see http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSEIC04599320070710). I'm thinking it's not his M.O. that's actually at work here as it's more likely the sexual appeal his physique has. The dude's a body builder.

But the O.P. may not share that attribute. Dry humping her, for him, may not be the way to go.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So, i could not resist myself and asked her to come over tomorrow. She responded quick to agree but told me she can't make it too long because she has to work on sunday. For me no problem because i go on holiday that day. Now, two things:
- I want to take things to another level, at least making out. Any tips to create a situation to make out or is it better to just move in?

- Shall i call her on her lack of initiating contact?
 
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Crude? WTF am I supposed to do? Write her poetry? Sing for her? Play my guitar? Rub her feet? Cook her dinner?

F*ck that!

Yes, my muscles help my game out big time. Pretty good motivation to build some muscle no?
 
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