"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When a girl never initiates the contact...

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Mr. Me

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The reason it seems to work for Muscle Expert is that women are more prone to want sex with muscular guys anyway (see http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSEIC04599320070710). I'm thinking it's not his M.O. that's actually at work here as it's more likely the sexual appeal his physique has. The dude's a body builder.

But the O.P. may not share that attribute. Dry humping her, for him, may not be the way to go.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So, i could not resist myself and asked her to come over tomorrow. She responded quick to agree but told me she can't make it too long because she has to work on sunday. For me no problem because i go on holiday that day. Now, two things:
- I want to take things to another level, at least making out. Any tips to create a situation to make out or is it better to just move in?

- Shall i call her on her lack of initiating contact?
 
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Crude? WTF am I supposed to do? Write her poetry? Sing for her? Play my guitar? Rub her feet? Cook her dinner?

F*ck that!

Yes, my muscles help my game out big time. Pretty good motivation to build some muscle no?
 
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