"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When a girl never initiates the contact...

Mr. Me

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The reason it seems to work for Muscle Expert is that women are more prone to want sex with muscular guys anyway (see http://www.reuters.com/article/oddlyEnoughNews/idUSEIC04599320070710). I'm thinking it's not his M.O. that's actually at work here as it's more likely the sexual appeal his physique has. The dude's a body builder.

But the O.P. may not share that attribute. Dry humping her, for him, may not be the way to go.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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So, i could not resist myself and asked her to come over tomorrow. She responded quick to agree but told me she can't make it too long because she has to work on sunday. For me no problem because i go on holiday that day. Now, two things:
- I want to take things to another level, at least making out. Any tips to create a situation to make out or is it better to just move in?

- Shall i call her on her lack of initiating contact?
 
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Crude? WTF am I supposed to do? Write her poetry? Sing for her? Play my guitar? Rub her feet? Cook her dinner?

F*ck that!

Yes, my muscles help my game out big time. Pretty good motivation to build some muscle no?
 
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