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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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When a girl gets mad at you

tryst type

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what's the best way to apologize without handing over your power?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dole

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you ignore her for a bit so she starts getting crazy ideas through her head ( basically thinking why haven't you contacted her ) and then few day's later you start talking to her again but don't bring up what ever happend, if it really offended her she will bring it up and I guess you could apologise. If she asks why you haven't contacted her tell her you been busy.
 

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tryst type said:
what's the best way to apologize without handing over your power?
Most important question: Are you actually guilty? Followed by: Are you genuinely apologizing? 3) Are you willing to work at fixing the problem, if there is one?

Then you worry about the other stuff. See, it depends on a lot of factors including integrity, confidence, whther or not you're being genuine, etc...

If guilty, you apologize AND MEAN IT; then you promise to work on it. Then you do. You might make some small favor up to her (you flaked on a date, you owe her a date).

If you aren't guilty, then no need to apologize. Depending on the relationship, you can decide to apologize and not mean it, then you consider some small favor; but this method is only supposed to be temporary. I wouldn't recommend this more than once a month.

And ultimately, you show fairness in 90% of your decisions.
 

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i don't understand what you guys are saying but as for me when a girl gets mad at me i get maded even dow am wrong.i don't need to apologize cause she's mad at me,i calm her down by getting maded no matter what the situation is.apologize when she is mad at me is like ma begging her,don't live i still love you.
 

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Indifference is key, my friend. But like someone stated above, if you're actually in the wrong, then by all means apologize, and mean it. If she's just throwing a temper tantrum, then don't buy into her crap. That's only encouraging this kind of behavior.
 

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