“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When A Girl Asks To Tell Something About Yourself?

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What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i say something that gives me social proof...for example, i DJ and a whole conversation can be based just off of that. or what i did this past weekend that was fun/interesting. and sometimes something that is ****y funny...depending on what i feel like.
 

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matygee said:
What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
Lying is bad, you're not only cheating her but you are also cheating your authenticity. Talk to her about your hobbies or plans for the future.
 
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lol my life is awesome dudes but hey i guess ill just leave it as it is thanks guys
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don't lie, lying is bad mmmk. Instead give information in dribbs and drabs. For example:

Chick: What do you do?
Matygee: Work.
Chick: Where?
Matygee:if your a lawyer, say something ambigious like in the legal field.
I'm in the legal field. Why? Are you offering me a position as your personal love slave and valet?
Chick:No
Matygee:I wasn't available anyway. Then change the subject.

The key is to stay as msyterious for as long as possible. Don't volunteer anything.
 

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This is one area I have problem with. I need more work on talking about myself. I think one of my area of concern is trying to talk about your self without offending her. Other tha taht I need to work on topics to talk about and adding humour and excitment to the convo.
 
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