Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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When A Girl Asks To Tell Something About Yourself?

matygee

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What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i say something that gives me social proof...for example, i DJ and a whole conversation can be based just off of that. or what i did this past weekend that was fun/interesting. and sometimes something that is ****y funny...depending on what i feel like.
 

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matygee said:
What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
Lying is bad, you're not only cheating her but you are also cheating your authenticity. Talk to her about your hobbies or plans for the future.
 
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lol my life is awesome dudes but hey i guess ill just leave it as it is thanks guys
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't lie, lying is bad mmmk. Instead give information in dribbs and drabs. For example:

Chick: What do you do?
Matygee: Work.
Chick: Where?
Matygee:if your a lawyer, say something ambigious like in the legal field.
I'm in the legal field. Why? Are you offering me a position as your personal love slave and valet?
Chick:No
Matygee:I wasn't available anyway. Then change the subject.

The key is to stay as msyterious for as long as possible. Don't volunteer anything.
 

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This is one area I have problem with. I need more work on talking about myself. I think one of my area of concern is trying to talk about your self without offending her. Other tha taht I need to work on topics to talk about and adding humour and excitment to the convo.
 
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