"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When A Girl Asks To Tell Something About Yourself?

matygee

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What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i say something that gives me social proof...for example, i DJ and a whole conversation can be based just off of that. or what i did this past weekend that was fun/interesting. and sometimes something that is ****y funny...depending on what i feel like.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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matygee said:
What false information do you give them? Like I'm at the degree where I don't neccesairly like telling girls about myself, and I remain much of a mystery to them. BUT I do realize that there is a time and place to tell them something, but I also wanna tell them something that would be different then anyone else. I was thinking on the lines of I saved a dying dog that I found in an alleway after I brought it to the VET. Maybe you dudes have some ideas, if so we can pool them together and make a good thread.:up:
Lying is bad, you're not only cheating her but you are also cheating your authenticity. Talk to her about your hobbies or plans for the future.
 
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lol my life is awesome dudes but hey i guess ill just leave it as it is thanks guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't lie, lying is bad mmmk. Instead give information in dribbs and drabs. For example:

Chick: What do you do?
Matygee: Work.
Chick: Where?
Matygee:if your a lawyer, say something ambigious like in the legal field.
I'm in the legal field. Why? Are you offering me a position as your personal love slave and valet?
Chick:No
Matygee:I wasn't available anyway. Then change the subject.

The key is to stay as msyterious for as long as possible. Don't volunteer anything.
 

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This is one area I have problem with. I need more work on talking about myself. I think one of my area of concern is trying to talk about your self without offending her. Other tha taht I need to work on topics to talk about and adding humour and excitment to the convo.
 
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