"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any way I'm a senior in high school and when my current gf asked me today I told her about 9 which is right. Is that a low amount? Do I look like a loser? I don't think it's that bad because I know some really cool people who have only had 1 or 2 gfs.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dont worry about it, shes just trying to find out if your like a player or something, by judging you on how many you've had.

but well you told her the number, its not like you can call her and say never mind i actually went out with so and so, whatever happened happened, how did she react to 9?

and also i dont really think it matters, shes going out with you cause she likes you, not because of how many you've dated, so dont stress it
now if she asks you how many girls you've had sex with, thats another story, i dont know about that lol

but for this topic, its nothing serious, dont sweat it

but anyways i think the lower number is sorta better, cause that demonstrates you can maintain a relationship, and aint girl hopping like other guys, also the quality of the girl also matters, i'd rather date a few really hot ones than a whole bunch of ugly bust downs
 
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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Search the forum, this has been asked countless times.
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