"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When a girl asks how many girlfriends you have had...

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bud_2005

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Any way I'm a senior in high school and when my current gf asked me today I told her about 9 which is right. Is that a low amount? Do I look like a loser? I don't think it's that bad because I know some really cool people who have only had 1 or 2 gfs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fabrizio

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dont worry about it, shes just trying to find out if your like a player or something, by judging you on how many you've had.

but well you told her the number, its not like you can call her and say never mind i actually went out with so and so, whatever happened happened, how did she react to 9?

and also i dont really think it matters, shes going out with you cause she likes you, not because of how many you've dated, so dont stress it
now if she asks you how many girls you've had sex with, thats another story, i dont know about that lol

but for this topic, its nothing serious, dont sweat it

but anyways i think the lower number is sorta better, cause that demonstrates you can maintain a relationship, and aint girl hopping like other guys, also the quality of the girl also matters, i'd rather date a few really hot ones than a whole bunch of ugly bust downs
 

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Search the forum, this has been asked countless times.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Search the forum, this has been asked countless times.
 
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