"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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When a couple divorces because of "boredom", isn't it really that wifey has determined that she can attain another man at higher Sexual Market Value?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No, there are plenty of boring, selfish dudes. If I was a woman I would divorce half the guys I know too. A lot of guys think only of themselves, for example, one guy I know plays video games on his phone ALL DAY when he's not smoking pot. He's divorced, he was extremely boring, did nothing to engage her. Did not play 2 player games, just went into his room and back to his corporate job, basically tossing her aside. There is a healthy medium and a woman is a person not a plaything. If you want a relationship to work, there must be common goals, mutual respect and fun. Alot of people overlook the last one. Sex is one thing, domination is another but fun is the missing ingredient in our culture, most relationships and most people are downright boring. They hate themselves and each other. The only reason women like PUA's is because they're more fun than the typical guy.


Most people shouldn't be married to each other and it's very clear that our Western society is fostering these backwards matchups.
 

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No, there are plenty of boring, selfish dudes. If I was a woman I would divorce half the guys I know too. A lot of guys think only of themselves, for example, one guy I know plays video games on his phone ALL DAY when he's not smoking pot. He's divorced, he was extremely boring, did nothing to engage her. Did not play 2 player games, just went into his room and back to his corporate job, basically tossing her aside. There is a healthy medium and a woman is a person not a plaything. If you want a relationship to work, there must be common goals, mutual respect and fun. Alot of people overlook the last one. Sex is one thing, domination is another but fun is the missing ingredient in our culture, most relationships and most people are downright boring. They hate themselves and each other. The only reason women like PUA's is because they're more fun than the typical guy.


Most people shouldn't be married to each other and it's very clear that our Western society is fostering these backwards matchups.
He should have played Leage of Legends.
 
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