jizzlobber
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How do you respond when a chick starts touching your hair? Ive been gettting a lot of kino from this chick and I dont know how to respond seeing as this occurrs at work.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WHen a chick touches your hair
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
chancer
Senior Don Juan
Turn around, grab her ass, and start gropping her neck with your lips. lol, no.
IF YOU LIKE IT!
Tell her that if she keeps rubbing you that way you'll report her for sexual harasment. Then create a lil rapport (if you haven't already... hey look a hair ball!), and set something up after work and take her number down.
Now, i'll slap a girls hand, NO! if she does it without asking. Because I honestly hate it when girls mess up my hair.
IF YOU LIKE IT!
Tell her that if she keeps rubbing you that way you'll report her for sexual harasment. Then create a lil rapport (if you haven't already... hey look a hair ball!), and set something up after work and take her number down.
Now, i'll slap a girls hand, NO! if she does it without asking. Because I honestly hate it when girls mess up my hair.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Acuse her of being a pervert. Tell her if she wants to touch you, she needs to pay $20.00 per song, but if she plays her cards right, you'll give her the 3 for 1 special.
Joe The Homophobe
Master Don Juan
EXACTLY!
I don't know what other more obvious signs you want that this b|tch wants you. When a woman touches your hair, well it is pretty obvious she wants you to make mad, passionate love to her!
, but if you can do it, congrats. I would go with gangster of love's approach. Pretty funny"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
spidersense
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can anyone in here think of a more obvious sign that a girl is into you, other than grabbing your balls? hair is like a magical area to women. THIS is a great great time to use some CF lines, many of which have already been posted in the CF threads.
"if you mess up my hair more I won't be able to look all pretty for you" or "eh eh eh..(shaking your finger at her) that will be $20 please, this s**t ain't cheap"
The sexual harrasment one would work but be careful about how you say it and if you're saying it at work who is around.
"if you mess up my hair more I won't be able to look all pretty for you" or "eh eh eh..(shaking your finger at her) that will be $20 please, this s**t ain't cheap"
The sexual harrasment one would work but be careful about how you say it and if you're saying it at work who is around.
jizzlobber
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Does this still hold true if she is the touchy feely type?
Does this still hold true if she is the touchy feely type?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.