"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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When a chick says...

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after school or work is over and they say something like

"Theres nothing to do now I'm bored." or "I don't wanna go home right now I got nothin to do." or something along those lines, is that an obvious signal that she wants you to ask her out/do something with her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Perhaps a read in ******** will help you recognize obvious signs like these.

Cheers.
 

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thx for responses.....there goes ANOTHER missed opportunity, lol. I'm an idiot for not recognizing these so I just gotta make a database of them incase they come up so I won't do anything stupid. Thanks for your help.
 

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********? uhhh where? when people say they're bored or whatever they're looking for something else to entertain them, whether it'd be you taking them someplace or they're just saying it for the hell of it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
********? uhhh where? when people say they're bored or whatever they're looking for something else to entertain them, whether it'd be you taking them someplace or they're just saying it for the hell of it.
A read in ******** will help him develop the ability to see clues behind the actual meaning of words.
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
A read in ******** will help him develop the ability to see clues behind the actual meaning of words.
I'm curious Vincent as to your understanding of this subject. Why don't you elaborate on it for us.
 
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Originally posted by blue17
after school or work is over and they say something like

"Theres nothing to do now I'm bored." or "I don't wanna go home right now I got nothin to do." or something along those lines, is that an obvious signal that she wants you to ask her out/do something with her?
I think you need a brick upside your head! J/K


You obviously are one of the ones who have not READ THE BIBLE OR DONE THE BOOT CAMP. So....uhhh ok. Cool.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I'm curious Vincent as to your understanding of this subject. Why don't you elaborate on it for us.
Perhaps if your lack of faith in me wasn't so blatant in that text I would taken the time to enlighten you to my understanding. Realizing you have no faith in me I decided I would only be wasting my time.
 

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I have read most of the Bible, I do understand the psychology of attraction/dating and such.....but I haven't read much up on the ******** or whatever. Still tho....no excuse, i'm an idiot!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Vincent
Perhaps if your lack of faith in me wasn't so blatant in that text I would taken the time to enlighten you to my understanding. Realizing you have no faith in me I decided I would only be wasting my time.
You see, actually you don't see. I was not exhibiting a lack of faith in you Vincent. I was testing to see if you truely know anything about the game. I was offering you a easy opportunity to show what you know. And this one is easy!

My opinion doesn't matter now does it.
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
You see, actually you don't see. I was not exhibiting a lack of faith in you Vincent. I was testing to see if you truely know anything about the game. I was offering you a easy opportunity to show what you know. And this one is easy!

My opinion doesn't matter now does it.
Hahha. What you said could be taken either as genuine or sarcastic. Right or wrong Vincent chose to assume you were writing in a sarcrastic tone. One of the downfalls of online communication.....
 
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