"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're sitting next to her in class..she starts to bite her nails, play with her hair, put her pencil in her mouth, flap her lips with her finger (weird i know). Does this mean she's not attracted to you and really doesn't care how she's received? She seems like a really open girl, always smiling, making fun of the class and laughing at the crap that i say. Am i reading too much into this or what. She sorta gives me the feeling that she's interested in me. But then when she starts biting her nails and flapping her lips with her finger and it's like aaah what's going on lol. Maybe she's nervous? She doesn't seem like the nervous type though...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tha Realnezz

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She is interested in you.Read her body-language cuz you might actually be boring her.
 

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****...other than a few jokes i cracked i was pretty boring this morning, woke up late to class.


anyways, any other opinions
 

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I was with a group of girls this past week one of them grabbed my nuts after I mentioned that I was single. The big problem is she's massive and has UGLY teeth.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop worrying so much about body language signals and stuff like that. I used to do that too much when I was new to this site.

One day a girl would give positive signals, the next day she wouldn't. And I would be worrying, "What if she doesn't like me anymore?" I realized that I was just becoming an AFC again thinking like that.

So now, it's all systems go at the sign of ANY positive signal from body language. Life is too damn short to be wondering what body language signal means what, so just go for it once you get a positive signal.

Ask her out.
 

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Originally posted by il_duce
Stop worrying so much about body language signals and stuff like that. I used to do that too much when I was new to this site.

One day a girl would give positive signals, the next day she wouldn't. And I would be worrying, "What if she doesn't like me anymore?" I realized that I was just becoming an AFC again thinking like that.

So now, it's all systems go at the sign of ANY positive signal from body language. Life is too damn short to be wondering what body language signal means what, so just go for it once you get a positive signal.

Ask her out.
I agree dude. I don't wanna think about it, but i'm just curious as helllllllllllllllllllll haha
 

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NAIL BITING--what girls do to attract guys

HAHA...you guys are HILARIOUS...

Honestly...BITING HER NAILS...FLAPPIN' HER LIPS...this is what you guys call BODY LANGUAGE to get a guy..."our little game"??

HAHA....umm, no it's called BEING YOURSELF...or she just doesn't like you!! But I bet that when she does this stuff, she's not even thinking about you or anyone else in the class -- NO self-consciousness here...

...She's just plain tired or bored with EVERYTHING!

So, heh, if ya fellas (for all y'all that think this way...) wanna "reverse" this little game you think she, and rest of the female pop., is playin'...umm...go ahead...she probably won't even notice...plus, it's such a BAD HABIT!! LOL (just use the Don Juan way...you'll have better luck of not GROSSING HER OUT...LOL)

: /

Seriously though, GOOD LUCK SHARPSHOOTER!!
 

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you see?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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