"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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sharpshooter

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You're sitting next to her in class..she starts to bite her nails, play with her hair, put her pencil in her mouth, flap her lips with her finger (weird i know). Does this mean she's not attracted to you and really doesn't care how she's received? She seems like a really open girl, always smiling, making fun of the class and laughing at the crap that i say. Am i reading too much into this or what. She sorta gives me the feeling that she's interested in me. But then when she starts biting her nails and flapping her lips with her finger and it's like aaah what's going on lol. Maybe she's nervous? She doesn't seem like the nervous type though...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tha Realnezz

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She is interested in you.Read her body-language cuz you might actually be boring her.
 

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****...other than a few jokes i cracked i was pretty boring this morning, woke up late to class.


anyways, any other opinions
 

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I was with a group of girls this past week one of them grabbed my nuts after I mentioned that I was single. The big problem is she's massive and has UGLY teeth.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stop worrying so much about body language signals and stuff like that. I used to do that too much when I was new to this site.

One day a girl would give positive signals, the next day she wouldn't. And I would be worrying, "What if she doesn't like me anymore?" I realized that I was just becoming an AFC again thinking like that.

So now, it's all systems go at the sign of ANY positive signal from body language. Life is too damn short to be wondering what body language signal means what, so just go for it once you get a positive signal.

Ask her out.
 

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Originally posted by il_duce
Stop worrying so much about body language signals and stuff like that. I used to do that too much when I was new to this site.

One day a girl would give positive signals, the next day she wouldn't. And I would be worrying, "What if she doesn't like me anymore?" I realized that I was just becoming an AFC again thinking like that.

So now, it's all systems go at the sign of ANY positive signal from body language. Life is too damn short to be wondering what body language signal means what, so just go for it once you get a positive signal.

Ask her out.
I agree dude. I don't wanna think about it, but i'm just curious as helllllllllllllllllllll haha
 

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NAIL BITING--what girls do to attract guys

HAHA...you guys are HILARIOUS...

Honestly...BITING HER NAILS...FLAPPIN' HER LIPS...this is what you guys call BODY LANGUAGE to get a guy..."our little game"??

HAHA....umm, no it's called BEING YOURSELF...or she just doesn't like you!! But I bet that when she does this stuff, she's not even thinking about you or anyone else in the class -- NO self-consciousness here...

...She's just plain tired or bored with EVERYTHING!

So, heh, if ya fellas (for all y'all that think this way...) wanna "reverse" this little game you think she, and rest of the female pop., is playin'...umm...go ahead...she probably won't even notice...plus, it's such a BAD HABIT!! LOL (just use the Don Juan way...you'll have better luck of not GROSSING HER OUT...LOL)

: /

Seriously though, GOOD LUCK SHARPSHOOTER!!
 

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you see?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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