"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When’s the last Rootbeer float you had?

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It’s been a while for me. They seem to be a popular thing at 50’s diners, the retro types. You sort of wish it had a smoking section, so you can smoke your pipe while you drink it lol. It’s a nice treat you can indulge anywhere and feel chill for a few minutes.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A natural diner that gives off a 50’s diner vibe in my opinion would have to be Sonics, especially while the servers have rollerblades on, that’s a special treat and feat to watch. A chilled out place to eat a chili dog while your listening to your fav jams. If you were smoking a pipe or cigar, the experience would be enhanced to just chill out and youd treat the whole place as if you were in your bedroom at home.
 

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I haven't had one since I was five and I think it's one of the most vile things i've ever eaten in my life. I'd rather eat fermented fish from a can then eat that again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's been several years, but I remember that I made it myself at home. They are tasty, a nice alternative to a milkshake. I knew a guy who was always talking about them, so I succumbed to temptation. Don't regret it either :)
 

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Sassafras grows wild in much of the US, but it's illegal to make a beverage out of it. First the FDA banned it, then the DEA began controlling it as a potential precursor to the manufacture of mdma.
 

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Ninja Creami + Kroger Diet Root Beer. Effortless to make a delicious protein root beer float!

Kroger’s Diet Root Beer is pretty good. I’ve used it as the base for my Root Beer BBQ sauce for proteins, turned out great.
 

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lol it’s like a treat you give elementary school students at the last day of school. You get them all in the gym, sit everyone down the floor with some pickles, pop corn, root beer float and watch an overhead screening of the movie The Sandlot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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