You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Simple.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You are right. It is less to do with the religion more to do with gaming and self rectification. I see it and I made myself believe otherwise.
Does it not seem strange that religions want you to act like it was back in the days when the most exciting thing that was going on chasing down that runaway camel? I mean think about it. There was nothing to do and nowhere to go. Of course they had all day to pray.
Well, in my world I reflect on choices which are the best for me. If I like a woman but feel a little dependency creeping up, I readjust my thinking accordingly.
Lol I love how you caught me out on my bs. I've discussed this with mates and they've eaten it up lol. Don juans ey.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can only answer for me saying that when I need to adjust my frame, I take a couple days to make sure all of my goals are being met, and that no one is stopping me from meeting them.