"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's your signature look

drellum

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The item of clothing that gets you noticed?

I started wearing pocket squares with sports jackets and the ladies always comment at how cool it looks.

The girls always seem to notice the shoes as well! Just invested in a nice pair of Trickers Brogues!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gray The Prince

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My left ear is double pierced and my right ear only has one stud. Girls always say I have the cutest ears and I'm the only guy I've seen in my college town with my ears pierced like this. So its a unique thing I have going for me and it compliments whatever I wear.(and they always get bitten and sucked on XD)
 

MisterD

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I have a jacket pretty similar to james dean's in rebel, except mine is black, plain white t-shirt, jeans, and black boots

i'm almost always in a plain white or black t-shirt and jeans unless i have to dress up for an occassion in which case i get pretty gq

but yeah, tshirts and jeans will never go out of style. i try to shoot for a classic look

i feel it casts a wider net. if i dressed ghetto i'd probably only attract ghetto chicks. or if i dressed hipster i'd only attract hipsters etc.

i've gotten attention from all different kinds of women because of this. at least i think that's the reason. part of it i'm sure
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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Jacked upper body, dreadlocks past my shoulders, earrings, always wear a iced out watch and bracelet, short silver necklace. Clothing is always Affliction or edhardy with some boots. If Im not wearing that I'll wear some formal dress type ****.. I get VERY good responses with this style.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Zerro

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I have several fedoras that I often wear when I go out, though not as often these days since I started shaving my head because I got tired of hiding a receding hairline and was sure everyone suspected it anyway. I've had a lot of girls approach me and open with something like "I like your hat, who are you?"

I have a black leather bomber jacket that I wear most of the time, though sometimes I switch it with my black wool heathrow jacket.

Sometimes I throw on a black vest over a button down shirt for a bit of class but sometimes over a t-shirt just for the unusual contrast. Either way it draws attention.

I don't have any piercings or tattoos, which is good in that I never have to cover anything up to look professional. I'm never clean-shaven unless I need to be for work (some job sites I visit have no-facial hair policies for health and safety reasons.)

I wear glasses as I can't stand contacts and I'm honestly too chicken to consider LASIK. As such I make sure to have frames that compliment my face well. My custom Rayban sunglasses go very well with my shaved head.
 

FairShake

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My glasses!

They have ultra-thick lenses since I can't see for sh!t. But, as the world turns, nerdy glasses are in now so I get compliments on them whereas 10 years ago I never did!
 
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