"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's your signature look

drellum

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The item of clothing that gets you noticed?

I started wearing pocket squares with sports jackets and the ladies always comment at how cool it looks.

The girls always seem to notice the shoes as well! Just invested in a nice pair of Trickers Brogues!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Gray The Prince

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My left ear is double pierced and my right ear only has one stud. Girls always say I have the cutest ears and I'm the only guy I've seen in my college town with my ears pierced like this. So its a unique thing I have going for me and it compliments whatever I wear.(and they always get bitten and sucked on XD)
 

MisterD

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I have a jacket pretty similar to james dean's in rebel, except mine is black, plain white t-shirt, jeans, and black boots

i'm almost always in a plain white or black t-shirt and jeans unless i have to dress up for an occassion in which case i get pretty gq

but yeah, tshirts and jeans will never go out of style. i try to shoot for a classic look

i feel it casts a wider net. if i dressed ghetto i'd probably only attract ghetto chicks. or if i dressed hipster i'd only attract hipsters etc.

i've gotten attention from all different kinds of women because of this. at least i think that's the reason. part of it i'm sure
 

Hustlaz Ambition

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Jacked upper body, dreadlocks past my shoulders, earrings, always wear a iced out watch and bracelet, short silver necklace. Clothing is always Affliction or edhardy with some boots. If Im not wearing that I'll wear some formal dress type ****.. I get VERY good responses with this style.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Zerro

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I have several fedoras that I often wear when I go out, though not as often these days since I started shaving my head because I got tired of hiding a receding hairline and was sure everyone suspected it anyway. I've had a lot of girls approach me and open with something like "I like your hat, who are you?"

I have a black leather bomber jacket that I wear most of the time, though sometimes I switch it with my black wool heathrow jacket.

Sometimes I throw on a black vest over a button down shirt for a bit of class but sometimes over a t-shirt just for the unusual contrast. Either way it draws attention.

I don't have any piercings or tattoos, which is good in that I never have to cover anything up to look professional. I'm never clean-shaven unless I need to be for work (some job sites I visit have no-facial hair policies for health and safety reasons.)

I wear glasses as I can't stand contacts and I'm honestly too chicken to consider LASIK. As such I make sure to have frames that compliment my face well. My custom Rayban sunglasses go very well with my shaved head.
 

FairShake

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My glasses!

They have ultra-thick lenses since I can't see for sh!t. But, as the world turns, nerdy glasses are in now so I get compliments on them whereas 10 years ago I never did!
 
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