"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What's your personal Oneitis love song?

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Think back to one of your oneitis/AFC days.....what's the song that you listened to that reminds you of that time?...or what was the song that you were listening to at that time? Lol just curious. I'm still here on vacation in the Philippines...it's 15 minutes to midnight and I'm just listening to some tunes on Youtube chilling.

Mine would be The Coors and Bono- When the stars go blue.

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You mean looking at music videos that have a sexy lady-singer on the video with a sexy voice and catchy tune? What are you up to in the Phiilippines?
 

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Just here with the family in the province where my dad grew up. I was talking to a few girls out here these past few months, it's cool and different.

I'm still deciding if I should settle down with the girls here or an American chick. There's pros and cons of each.

I go back to the states in November, Thanksgiving day. Save a slice of pecan pie for me.
 

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Definitely this one, girl broke up and the guy is fantasising about a life together and waiting for her to call him even though it's been months. It's unironically pretty catchy

 

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This is also another good one. I sang this in a high note fashion in our hotel Karaoke bar, I got an alright score. But really check out the lyrics, its heart break man.

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oneitis or SIMP, same difference...

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I was attending community college when that song out. I first saw it in the cafeteria. Should have been more social and talked to more people, there was a ton of cute girls on campus.

James Blunt? Lol how's that dude doing? He hasn't produced any hits in a long time. One thing for sure, a lot of dudes simped to this song after a heart break and instant infatuation.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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