"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's your opinion on this situation?

Ulex

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I’ve been ****in*** this 26 years old girl frequently in secrecy for about 3 weeks. She seems to enjoy me a lot, she never says no to me. She’s divorced. She’s very unstable emotionally. When I meet her she had a boyfriend which she didn’t like, but the problem was they shared a house. She has also a close friend which loves her (she told me), although she sees the guy only as friend (she told me). We have been lunching the three on some occasions.

Now she made the decision to leave the boyfriend and the house, and she’s going to live with her parents. She’s going to lose her car also to the ex. I live alone.

The best-friend is all over her and he is borrowing his own car to her! She tells me all this and she says to me that the best-friend sees me as an adversary (although we get well).

In addition she’s the type of girl who makes remarks about other guys if I’m around; chat on the internet with other guys. I really don’t give a ****, but that worries me for a more serious relation…

What do you think guys? What should I expect? How should I play?

Ulex
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJUofS

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If your at risk of losing your best friend because of this girl next her. Get rid of her quick... i'd rather lose a fvck buddy than lose my best friend.
 

Ulex

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Originally posted by DJUofS
If your at risk of losing your best friend because of this girl next her. Get rid of her quick... i'd rather lose a fvck buddy than lose my best friend.
Thanks but you get the wrong picture, the best friend I'm discribing is hers...
 

Mazman

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"She’s very unstable emotionally"

Read this over and over.

And your main problem is that she talks to other guys?????
 

MacDiddy

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Use her as a F*** buddy and thats all, be indifferent. The fact that she is a bit unstable should tell you not to get to close emotionally yourself
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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flexion_

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Beware emotionally unstable women who have mostly guy friends. HUGE red flags. As long as you don't get emotionally attached and just want some sex then go for it. I personally would run for the hills but thats just me.
 
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