"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What's your opinion on this situation?

Ulex

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I’ve been ****in*** this 26 years old girl frequently in secrecy for about 3 weeks. She seems to enjoy me a lot, she never says no to me. She’s divorced. She’s very unstable emotionally. When I meet her she had a boyfriend which she didn’t like, but the problem was they shared a house. She has also a close friend which loves her (she told me), although she sees the guy only as friend (she told me). We have been lunching the three on some occasions.

Now she made the decision to leave the boyfriend and the house, and she’s going to live with her parents. She’s going to lose her car also to the ex. I live alone.

The best-friend is all over her and he is borrowing his own car to her! She tells me all this and she says to me that the best-friend sees me as an adversary (although we get well).

In addition she’s the type of girl who makes remarks about other guys if I’m around; chat on the internet with other guys. I really don’t give a ****, but that worries me for a more serious relation…

What do you think guys? What should I expect? How should I play?

Ulex
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJUofS

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If your at risk of losing your best friend because of this girl next her. Get rid of her quick... i'd rather lose a fvck buddy than lose my best friend.
 

Ulex

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Originally posted by DJUofS
If your at risk of losing your best friend because of this girl next her. Get rid of her quick... i'd rather lose a fvck buddy than lose my best friend.
Thanks but you get the wrong picture, the best friend I'm discribing is hers...
 

Mazman

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"She’s very unstable emotionally"

Read this over and over.

And your main problem is that she talks to other guys?????
 

MacDiddy

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Use her as a F*** buddy and thats all, be indifferent. The fact that she is a bit unstable should tell you not to get to close emotionally yourself
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flexion_

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Beware emotionally unstable women who have mostly guy friends. HUGE red flags. As long as you don't get emotionally attached and just want some sex then go for it. I personally would run for the hills but thats just me.
 
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