RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I just wanna see what everyones opinon is on meeting and girls on myspace. Meet them for dates,friends,One night stands,or LTR...
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Whats your opinion on meeting girls on myspace?
- Thread starter RyKnOw
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
couldn't tell you...have yet to meet one
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
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I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
imo, it's pretty freakin' hard. Most of the girls I friend don't friend me back.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I do admit it is hard but the girls I have met are like desperately seeking male companionship..Once I start talking to them through IM then it doesnt seem like I am a stalker..Im actually seeing a girl now that I met from myspace..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KneghtRyder
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calling PlasticSurgeon....will plasticSurgeon please report to the operating room err...discussion thread
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
hmm..okay
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
1) Be young.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
squirrels
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1) Look good
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
Myspace is a great place to network, however, you must find an online chating forum, where you can engage with the chick.
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.