RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I just wanna see what everyones opinon is on meeting and girls on myspace. Meet them for dates,friends,One night stands,or LTR...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whats your opinion on meeting girls on myspace?
- Thread starter RyKnOw
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
couldn't tell you...have yet to meet one
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
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I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
imo, it's pretty freakin' hard. Most of the girls I friend don't friend me back.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I do admit it is hard but the girls I have met are like desperately seeking male companionship..Once I start talking to them through IM then it doesnt seem like I am a stalker..Im actually seeing a girl now that I met from myspace..
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KneghtRyder
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calling PlasticSurgeon....will plasticSurgeon please report to the operating room err...discussion thread
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
hmm..okay
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
1) Be young.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
squirrels
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1) Look good
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
Myspace is a great place to network, however, you must find an online chating forum, where you can engage with the chick.
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.