RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I just wanna see what everyones opinon is on meeting and girls on myspace. Meet them for dates,friends,One night stands,or LTR...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Whats your opinion on meeting girls on myspace?
- Thread starter RyKnOw
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
couldn't tell you...have yet to meet one
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
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I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
I never tried it till now...Tho its not really that bad I think..
imo, it's pretty freakin' hard. Most of the girls I friend don't friend me back.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
I did meet a girl off myspace once (she friended me first), but she went to my school so after classes started back up I didn't have to walk very far to meet her. She was pretty attractive, and we went out a few times. We didn't have all that much in common, tho, it turned out.
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
I do admit it is hard but the girls I have met are like desperately seeking male companionship..Once I start talking to them through IM then it doesnt seem like I am a stalker..Im actually seeing a girl now that I met from myspace..
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KneghtRyder
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calling PlasticSurgeon....will plasticSurgeon please report to the operating room err...discussion thread
RyKnOw
Senior Don Juan
hmm..okay
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
1) Be young.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
2) Have good pics.
3) Have an interesting profile that doesn't try too hard or provide too much info.
4) Send a message before you try to add them. Have something worthwhile to say in your message.
squirrels
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1) Look good
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
2) Show that you have a life
3) Let them come to you.
I've NEVER had any luck with any girl I've sent the first message to on MySpace. Yet I've met ALL KINDS of chicks on there...more than I've met in bars or clubs for that matter. The whole range, too...from quality women to utter trash. None of them have ever "worked out" in the long-term, but the sex has been decent.
Myspace is a great place to network, however, you must find an online chating forum, where you can engage with the chick.
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
Myspace you basically are sending back and forth notes, pics, etc. You have to have a forum where you and the girl are CHATTING online.
From there, you get her number, give her yours.
Now, you HAVE to be great on the phone. Yes, phone sex.
From phone sex, you lead to real sex. This might be a little hard for some of you to understand, seeing that you really don't "believe" that sexual state is all you need and that you have to have 6 packs, Scott Steiner biceps, and Arnold Shoulder muscles.
All that is great, but quite honestly, without any sexuality to back it up, it's as worthless as an AFC.
In dating, women choose guys
1. First based on them being a great fvck
2. Second on them being a great relationship
The second requirement is really not a requirement anymore, as many girls know that they can alwasy "teach" a guy how to be a great partner. So girls do the filtering to see who's a great fvck partner first.
The guys that get chosen are the SEXUAL GUYS.
Period.
You can meet them online, at Arby's, it doesn't matter WHERE THE LOCATION IS. All that matters is IF THE GUY IS SEXUAL.
End of story. Why can't you understand that?
-DJF
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.