"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's your new years game plan?

hope7

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-Ask random people "what's your new years resolution", have a conversation from there. This is mixed with checking up on my friends, building social proof.
-Get back to the girl who you connected most with, ask her "how have you been?", then go to a more emotional topic which I need help on you guys (the weak part of my game).
-If she's feeling it, I move on to some heavy kino, maybe some making out depending on how it goes. If she's not feeling it, eject and move on.
-If it's not too long from the countdown and we haven't kissed yet, plan to kiss her on midnight.
-Depending on the flow, take her home or get the number.

What about you guys?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Socialreject

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Hmmm

1) Find posh club
2) Park car around back alley
3) Caveman sets
4) Extract to car
5) Bang female
6) Rinse, repeat?

Yeah i think that about sums up my 'plan'... I don't really have an 'opener' in mind that I wanna use consistently, just flow...

I'd skip the "kiss on midnight" thing personally... Seems predictable, and you really have no way to make sure she's feeling it right at that time.

I guess it depends on where you're going to go, but if you're planning on hitting clubs or parties then maybe skip the 'emotional connection' stuff, and just go for light banter/heavy kino... caveman! Each to his own though...
 

bukowski_merit

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my friend is getting locked up soon (facing 15+ years)... we're going to be out for what could be our last night out... women are the least of my worries; just trying to help him enjoy some final days of freedom and forget about what he's up against.
 

eatgel

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enjoy my life, and make new plans that is going to make me a better person... I got big plans and ambitions thanks to my uncle, we pretty much run things down here in mongolia !
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Well, I plan to do alot. I plan to really try and get out of this mode I am constantly in. It's not going to be nor has it been easy. As I said before, I feel I am fightng with myself.

I must say, finding this site and reading through it has made me rethink alot, don't deal with single mothers, seeing "afc" qualities/tendencies in others, but not myself, but they are there.

I feel I am not this ideal talked about. The "don juan", instead of being the ultra charasmatic, positive energy charged, and truly masculine man, talked about her. Instead, I am rifed with a cynicism and an anger and an unhappyness. I feel lost, in the midst of some identity crisis, who I really am and what I becoming?
 
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