"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What's your new years game plan?

hope7

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-Ask random people "what's your new years resolution", have a conversation from there. This is mixed with checking up on my friends, building social proof.
-Get back to the girl who you connected most with, ask her "how have you been?", then go to a more emotional topic which I need help on you guys (the weak part of my game).
-If she's feeling it, I move on to some heavy kino, maybe some making out depending on how it goes. If she's not feeling it, eject and move on.
-If it's not too long from the countdown and we haven't kissed yet, plan to kiss her on midnight.
-Depending on the flow, take her home or get the number.

What about you guys?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Socialreject

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Hmmm

1) Find posh club
2) Park car around back alley
3) Caveman sets
4) Extract to car
5) Bang female
6) Rinse, repeat?

Yeah i think that about sums up my 'plan'... I don't really have an 'opener' in mind that I wanna use consistently, just flow...

I'd skip the "kiss on midnight" thing personally... Seems predictable, and you really have no way to make sure she's feeling it right at that time.

I guess it depends on where you're going to go, but if you're planning on hitting clubs or parties then maybe skip the 'emotional connection' stuff, and just go for light banter/heavy kino... caveman! Each to his own though...
 

bukowski_merit

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my friend is getting locked up soon (facing 15+ years)... we're going to be out for what could be our last night out... women are the least of my worries; just trying to help him enjoy some final days of freedom and forget about what he's up against.
 

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enjoy my life, and make new plans that is going to make me a better person... I got big plans and ambitions thanks to my uncle, we pretty much run things down here in mongolia !
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Well, I plan to do alot. I plan to really try and get out of this mode I am constantly in. It's not going to be nor has it been easy. As I said before, I feel I am fightng with myself.

I must say, finding this site and reading through it has made me rethink alot, don't deal with single mothers, seeing "afc" qualities/tendencies in others, but not myself, but they are there.

I feel I am not this ideal talked about. The "don juan", instead of being the ultra charasmatic, positive energy charged, and truly masculine man, talked about her. Instead, I am rifed with a cynicism and an anger and an unhappyness. I feel lost, in the midst of some identity crisis, who I really am and what I becoming?
 
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