"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's your new years game plan?

hope7

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-Ask random people "what's your new years resolution", have a conversation from there. This is mixed with checking up on my friends, building social proof.
-Get back to the girl who you connected most with, ask her "how have you been?", then go to a more emotional topic which I need help on you guys (the weak part of my game).
-If she's feeling it, I move on to some heavy kino, maybe some making out depending on how it goes. If she's not feeling it, eject and move on.
-If it's not too long from the countdown and we haven't kissed yet, plan to kiss her on midnight.
-Depending on the flow, take her home or get the number.

What about you guys?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Socialreject

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Hmmm

1) Find posh club
2) Park car around back alley
3) Caveman sets
4) Extract to car
5) Bang female
6) Rinse, repeat?

Yeah i think that about sums up my 'plan'... I don't really have an 'opener' in mind that I wanna use consistently, just flow...

I'd skip the "kiss on midnight" thing personally... Seems predictable, and you really have no way to make sure she's feeling it right at that time.

I guess it depends on where you're going to go, but if you're planning on hitting clubs or parties then maybe skip the 'emotional connection' stuff, and just go for light banter/heavy kino... caveman! Each to his own though...
 

bukowski_merit

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my friend is getting locked up soon (facing 15+ years)... we're going to be out for what could be our last night out... women are the least of my worries; just trying to help him enjoy some final days of freedom and forget about what he's up against.
 

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enjoy my life, and make new plans that is going to make me a better person... I got big plans and ambitions thanks to my uncle, we pretty much run things down here in mongolia !
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, I plan to do alot. I plan to really try and get out of this mode I am constantly in. It's not going to be nor has it been easy. As I said before, I feel I am fightng with myself.

I must say, finding this site and reading through it has made me rethink alot, don't deal with single mothers, seeing "afc" qualities/tendencies in others, but not myself, but they are there.

I feel I am not this ideal talked about. The "don juan", instead of being the ultra charasmatic, positive energy charged, and truly masculine man, talked about her. Instead, I am rifed with a cynicism and an anger and an unhappyness. I feel lost, in the midst of some identity crisis, who I really am and what I becoming?
 
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