diplomatic_lies
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i'm a jedi!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What's your job?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
i finished an apprenticeship for a Mold maker (plastic injection molds), worked in the shop for about 4 years..... then I got sick of working 12 hours a day and being somebody elses biach so I quit and changed profesions.
Now I'm a plastic injection Mold Designer. I work for a company with about 35 people, and I'm one of the 3 in the eng. department.
(It kinda explains why i'm on this board ALL THE TIME)
Now I'm a plastic injection Mold Designer. I work for a company with about 35 people, and I'm one of the 3 in the eng. department.
(It kinda explains why i'm on this board ALL THE TIME)
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Helicopter resorvationist/labor crew and motorcycle sales man....getting back in to being a loan officer soo though, the money in the southwest for home loans is just too good to pass up.
eggnawgkid
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I've been pushing in the shopping carts from the parking lot at a grocery store for 4 and a half months. Worst job ever. Luckily I got my friend a job with me about 6 weeks ago so it's a little better now. I have a couple friends that are bus boys at Black Angus and another that makes pizzas so I'm thinking about having them get me a job when school starts.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ghazala
Don Juan
Banker ....
mackattack120
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I work in the kitchen at mcdonalds.
Super FLY Guy
Don Juan
I own a auto detailing business.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
What are you an arms dealer?
HereToImprove
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Information Architect for a web development agency. Also do some copywriting on the side in the ad world.