"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's your job?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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spider_007

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i finished an apprenticeship for a Mold maker (plastic injection molds), worked in the shop for about 4 years..... then I got sick of working 12 hours a day and being somebody elses biach so I quit and changed profesions.

Now I'm a plastic injection Mold Designer. I work for a company with about 35 people, and I'm one of the 3 in the eng. department.

(It kinda explains why i'm on this board ALL THE TIME)
 

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Helicopter resorvationist/labor crew and motorcycle sales man....getting back in to being a loan officer soo though, the money in the southwest for home loans is just too good to pass up.
 

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I work at a reasutrant making 200 a week and work 3 days a week so pretty good for a part time job and only working 18 hours
 

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I've been pushing in the shopping carts from the parking lot at a grocery store for 4 and a half months. Worst job ever. Luckily I got my friend a job with me about 6 weeks ago so it's a little better now. I have a couple friends that are bus boys at Black Angus and another that makes pizzas so I'm thinking about having them get me a job when school starts.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sstype

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Originally posted by I'm Joe Dirt
I am a Counter Intelligence Agent at GEEK SQUAD!

(for those of you who aren't familiar with what Geek Squad is, visit www.geeksquad.com)

Basically I am a service technician, fixing computers, decoding DVD players, etc. in store.

wow...so am I. However, since I am not certified to repair computers, I mainly work the computer sales floor, offering and selling all the store services
 

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Originally posted by eggnawgkid
I've been pushing in the shopping carts from the parking lot at a grocery store for 4 and a half months. Worst job ever. Luckily I got my friend a job with me about 6 weeks ago so it's a little better now. I have a couple friends that are bus boys at Black Angus and another that makes pizzas so I'm thinking about having them get me a job when school starts.
My 14 year old son makes $8 an hour working the cash window at Wendy's.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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Originally posted by Unscarred
I give army stuff to army people...
What are you an arms dealer?:eek:
 

HereToImprove

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Information Architect for a web development agency. Also do some copywriting on the side in the ad world.
 
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