"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's your experience with handling multiple partners?

ZurichBateman

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Had a few phases where I've been handling multiple relationships in parallel.

Handling a full-time job and scheduling meet ups, texting and so on with three girls is the max I could handle.. it's fun but at some point I'd get tired of how much time it drains and start simplifying it back down to 1.. maybe 2..

At some point there's always too much tension that built up in my case about the fact I would never be 100% available for one of them. And the girl that could least deal with this fact was the one I'd always to let go rather sooner than later..

Anyway getting back to topic, what are your experiences with the subject ? How do you manage this kind of stuff?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yooooo, I'm in that same boat right now except it's with 7 girls!! Hahahaha. Crazy, I know. The worst is I work on the weekends so scheduling dates is extra tough. What I've done is to slot the girls into grade groups from A to D. Lol. A being hottest and D being not as hot. Lol. I prioritize the As and if any of the As flake, I replace their date with the next grade (B, C, D etc).

Whenever I get a new number, I make sure NOT to call or text them until I know for sure I will have an allocation open for them. When I do text them, I feign like I was busy or something and ask them to go out.

It's hectic but it's a good way to have options. So far, I've had two flakes and they're always so easily replaced so I always have a date at each point in time.
 

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Haha dude! That's some military discipline you must have to handle all that p*ssy. :D

I'd usually see each one at least once in the week, usually weeknights and I keep the biggest part of my weekends open to do whatever on my own, with my buddies etc. I guess it all comes down to how much time you have and how much you spend communicating with them. It's a definite ego trip to have always some unread messages from a girl or two in your phone.. but keeping track of the convos, saying some meaningful stuff and not repeating yourself only works (at least for me) with 3 girls.. more than that and the overhead isn't worth the extra unit of p*ssy.

I have one girl that is going to be taking up all of my time for a week during the holidays so I had to call it off last with another that was becoming too demanding, a hot young cougar working in fashion.. But at the end of the conversation we were having in a bar, I checked her iphone that was having some connection problem and I saw by accident she had these different porn tabs open in her safari on some pretty kinky ****.. So now I'm having 2nd thoughts about having just friendzoned this girl.. feel like there's still some more to explore with this one ;)
 

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if you're going to do it, make sure you do it with girls that have different names.

I once went out with 2 Sams. things quickly became confusing.
 

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Lol @ user name. That has only happened to me once. They weren't the same name but I texted the wrong girl with an explicit text that contained the name of another girl. Needless to say she was pissed and I never saw her again. Lol. So yeah, keep track of your conversations, double check the recipients of your message and don't stuff your mouth with more than you can chew.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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