"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's your experience with handling multiple partners?

ZurichBateman

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Had a few phases where I've been handling multiple relationships in parallel.

Handling a full-time job and scheduling meet ups, texting and so on with three girls is the max I could handle.. it's fun but at some point I'd get tired of how much time it drains and start simplifying it back down to 1.. maybe 2..

At some point there's always too much tension that built up in my case about the fact I would never be 100% available for one of them. And the girl that could least deal with this fact was the one I'd always to let go rather sooner than later..

Anyway getting back to topic, what are your experiences with the subject ? How do you manage this kind of stuff?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yooooo, I'm in that same boat right now except it's with 7 girls!! Hahahaha. Crazy, I know. The worst is I work on the weekends so scheduling dates is extra tough. What I've done is to slot the girls into grade groups from A to D. Lol. A being hottest and D being not as hot. Lol. I prioritize the As and if any of the As flake, I replace their date with the next grade (B, C, D etc).

Whenever I get a new number, I make sure NOT to call or text them until I know for sure I will have an allocation open for them. When I do text them, I feign like I was busy or something and ask them to go out.

It's hectic but it's a good way to have options. So far, I've had two flakes and they're always so easily replaced so I always have a date at each point in time.
 

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Haha dude! That's some military discipline you must have to handle all that p*ssy. :D

I'd usually see each one at least once in the week, usually weeknights and I keep the biggest part of my weekends open to do whatever on my own, with my buddies etc. I guess it all comes down to how much time you have and how much you spend communicating with them. It's a definite ego trip to have always some unread messages from a girl or two in your phone.. but keeping track of the convos, saying some meaningful stuff and not repeating yourself only works (at least for me) with 3 girls.. more than that and the overhead isn't worth the extra unit of p*ssy.

I have one girl that is going to be taking up all of my time for a week during the holidays so I had to call it off last with another that was becoming too demanding, a hot young cougar working in fashion.. But at the end of the conversation we were having in a bar, I checked her iphone that was having some connection problem and I saw by accident she had these different porn tabs open in her safari on some pretty kinky ****.. So now I'm having 2nd thoughts about having just friendzoned this girl.. feel like there's still some more to explore with this one ;)
 

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if you're going to do it, make sure you do it with girls that have different names.

I once went out with 2 Sams. things quickly became confusing.
 

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Lol @ user name. That has only happened to me once. They weren't the same name but I texted the wrong girl with an explicit text that contained the name of another girl. Needless to say she was pissed and I never saw her again. Lol. So yeah, keep track of your conversations, double check the recipients of your message and don't stuff your mouth with more than you can chew.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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