"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's your experience with handling multiple partners?

ZurichBateman

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Had a few phases where I've been handling multiple relationships in parallel.

Handling a full-time job and scheduling meet ups, texting and so on with three girls is the max I could handle.. it's fun but at some point I'd get tired of how much time it drains and start simplifying it back down to 1.. maybe 2..

At some point there's always too much tension that built up in my case about the fact I would never be 100% available for one of them. And the girl that could least deal with this fact was the one I'd always to let go rather sooner than later..

Anyway getting back to topic, what are your experiences with the subject ? How do you manage this kind of stuff?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yooooo, I'm in that same boat right now except it's with 7 girls!! Hahahaha. Crazy, I know. The worst is I work on the weekends so scheduling dates is extra tough. What I've done is to slot the girls into grade groups from A to D. Lol. A being hottest and D being not as hot. Lol. I prioritize the As and if any of the As flake, I replace their date with the next grade (B, C, D etc).

Whenever I get a new number, I make sure NOT to call or text them until I know for sure I will have an allocation open for them. When I do text them, I feign like I was busy or something and ask them to go out.

It's hectic but it's a good way to have options. So far, I've had two flakes and they're always so easily replaced so I always have a date at each point in time.
 

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Haha dude! That's some military discipline you must have to handle all that p*ssy. :D

I'd usually see each one at least once in the week, usually weeknights and I keep the biggest part of my weekends open to do whatever on my own, with my buddies etc. I guess it all comes down to how much time you have and how much you spend communicating with them. It's a definite ego trip to have always some unread messages from a girl or two in your phone.. but keeping track of the convos, saying some meaningful stuff and not repeating yourself only works (at least for me) with 3 girls.. more than that and the overhead isn't worth the extra unit of p*ssy.

I have one girl that is going to be taking up all of my time for a week during the holidays so I had to call it off last with another that was becoming too demanding, a hot young cougar working in fashion.. But at the end of the conversation we were having in a bar, I checked her iphone that was having some connection problem and I saw by accident she had these different porn tabs open in her safari on some pretty kinky ****.. So now I'm having 2nd thoughts about having just friendzoned this girl.. feel like there's still some more to explore with this one ;)
 

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if you're going to do it, make sure you do it with girls that have different names.

I once went out with 2 Sams. things quickly became confusing.
 

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Lol @ user name. That has only happened to me once. They weren't the same name but I texted the wrong girl with an explicit text that contained the name of another girl. Needless to say she was pissed and I never saw her again. Lol. So yeah, keep track of your conversations, double check the recipients of your message and don't stuff your mouth with more than you can chew.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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