"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'll freely admit that this is not one of my greater strengths (probably partly due to my disdain for meaningless texting). The best 'text game" tip I can offer is one that was likely pulled on me (but it seemed clever enough).

A woman that I was lukewarm about (and barely invested any energy into) sent me this one a week after I'd not contacted her:
"Did you already meet someone?" I was going through text, to erase them and found this one. This is ______ ."

Although I could take or leave her, she's investing some energy (lives close by, but not too close and is avg looking) so I'm going to give her a shot. Admittedly, her above text could have been genuine, but I also realize that it could have been a coy method to reach out as well. This would definitely need some re-wording if a man was sending something like this out as a "last attempt" to a female.

I figured that if any of you have some "default" / "go to" text initiates or responses, post them here.
I'm tagging @BackInTheGame78 because he's previously provided some jewels (but they are scattered in different postings and posting them under one heading could be beneficial). Everyone with a tip is encouraged to reply.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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