"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's your best backhanded compliment or neg ?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bingo-Player

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women read so deeply into things anything that can be interpreted in more ways than one is usually good

"why do you do your make up like that"

"do you think that colour suits you "

" one of my ex's used to dress exactly like you do "


the opportuinties really are endless , dont stop until shes on her back with her legs over your head
 

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I don't neg.... that is weak and transparent. All women know what you are doing and it only works on the incredibly stupid.
 

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i find backhanded compliments work on a girl well if she's attracted to you , it's a good way to be a ******* to her and make her think your not nice , I have been following Tom Lykies show I find a backhanded compliments more effective than mystery method negs, like nice hair is it real? Well it's nice any way make you look weird .
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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A funny neg is a great tool to increase interest when it exists and a good way to gauge it when its low.

An interested girl will probably laught and show you the middle finger in a playful way or softly hit you, an uninterested girl will show no reaction or look at you with disgust.

"I like you because you have a great heart, if only your brain would be at least average you would be the real deal".
 

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1) "I like your dress. My grandmother has that dress".
2) "I like your hair. Are any of those colors your natural color?"
3) (Upon seeing her tattoo(s)): "I hope they find the guy who did it".
4) "Oh my God, is that one of those things I heard about called a Smart... phone? Cool! Now I heard about this place called the... World... Wide... Web? You may have heard of it, and there is this site there called...Face... Book? Are you on... Face.. book? Wow! You must be really popular!!"
 
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i don't neg unless the girl is cluster b. cluster b girls do it, so i will do it, too.

otherwise, i don't neg. Why? I wouldn't like to be negged by a girl i'm hanging out with and i think the girl deserves the same courtesy if she isn't negging me.

it's better to build people up than it is to put them down. i don't want to be put down by the girls i date and I want to date girls who are the same.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A funny neg is a great tool to increase interest when it exists and a good way to gauge it when its low.

An interested girl will probably laught and show you the middle finger in a playful way or softly hit you, an uninterested girl will show no reaction or look at you with disgust.

"I like you because you have a great heart, if only your brain would be at least average you would be the real deal".
Agree with this. I always bs with negs first because that's how I am anyway. I had a girl smile, laugh, throw up the middle finger with a smirk on her face. You know you're in now.
 

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When she won't put her phone down: "Damn girl save some Internet for the rest of us" or "Damn you can't seem to put that thing down they have 12 step programs for people like you"

When she won't shut up about an ex: "Sounds like a great guy, he should be by wingman next time I go sarging"

If you really want to push it and take a risk of really making her furious, when she talks about a past ex abusing her "Well gee, what did you do to p|ss him off so bad?"
 

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Wel I think backhanded compliments are effective for me I always get iOi s after I use them so keep them coming guys.
 
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