"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What's your best backhanded compliment or neg ?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bingo-Player
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"why do you do your make up like that"
"do you think that colour suits you "
" one of my ex's used to dress exactly like you do "
the opportuinties really are endless , dont stop until shes on her back with her legs over your head
RangerMIke
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YawataNoKami
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Nope , you are wrong. All women are ego monsters.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Who Dares Win
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An interested girl will probably laught and show you the middle finger in a playful way or softly hit you, an uninterested girl will show no reaction or look at you with disgust.
"I like you because you have a great heart, if only your brain would be at least average you would be the real deal".
2) "I like your hair. Are any of those colors your natural color?"
3) (Upon seeing her tattoo(s)): "I hope they find the guy who did it".
4) "Oh my God, is that one of those things I heard about called a Smart... phone? Cool! Now I heard about this place called the... World... Wide... Web? You may have heard of it, and there is this site there called...Face... Book? Are you on... Face.. book? Wow! You must be really popular!!"
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otherwise, i don't neg. Why? I wouldn't like to be negged by a girl i'm hanging out with and i think the girl deserves the same courtesy if she isn't negging me.
it's better to build people up than it is to put them down. i don't want to be put down by the girls i date and I want to date girls who are the same.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Agree with this. I always bs with negs first because that's how I am anyway. I had a girl smile, laugh, throw up the middle finger with a smirk on her face. You know you're in now.
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When she won't shut up about an ex: "Sounds like a great guy, he should be by wingman next time I go sarging"
If you really want to push it and take a risk of really making her furious, when she talks about a past ex abusing her "Well gee, what did you do to p|ss him off so bad?"