"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What's your best backhanded compliment or neg ?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bingo-Player
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"why do you do your make up like that"
"do you think that colour suits you "
" one of my ex's used to dress exactly like you do "
the opportuinties really are endless , dont stop until shes on her back with her legs over your head
RangerMIke
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YawataNoKami
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Nope , you are wrong. All women are ego monsters.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Who Dares Win
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An interested girl will probably laught and show you the middle finger in a playful way or softly hit you, an uninterested girl will show no reaction or look at you with disgust.
"I like you because you have a great heart, if only your brain would be at least average you would be the real deal".
2) "I like your hair. Are any of those colors your natural color?"
3) (Upon seeing her tattoo(s)): "I hope they find the guy who did it".
4) "Oh my God, is that one of those things I heard about called a Smart... phone? Cool! Now I heard about this place called the... World... Wide... Web? You may have heard of it, and there is this site there called...Face... Book? Are you on... Face.. book? Wow! You must be really popular!!"
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usernamedox11
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otherwise, i don't neg. Why? I wouldn't like to be negged by a girl i'm hanging out with and i think the girl deserves the same courtesy if she isn't negging me.
it's better to build people up than it is to put them down. i don't want to be put down by the girls i date and I want to date girls who are the same.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
JohnChops
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Agree with this. I always bs with negs first because that's how I am anyway. I had a girl smile, laugh, throw up the middle finger with a smirk on her face. You know you're in now.
logicallefty
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When she won't shut up about an ex: "Sounds like a great guy, he should be by wingman next time I go sarging"
If you really want to push it and take a risk of really making her furious, when she talks about a past ex abusing her "Well gee, what did you do to p|ss him off so bad?"