Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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escobar04

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hey fellas, havent been here ina while so I came crawling back as usual when times get tough

so what do you guys do for fun? snowboard? dirtbike? por-wrestle, collect flowers?

the reason im asking is cos Im deadly bored with life with no friends or any typa relationships, I have a feeling that Imma about to get fired from my minimum wage job, Im good at nothing so maybe I can find some new inspiration(s)

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs

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Computer God.
Pool/Billards Player.
Social Person.
Road Trips.
Sleeping.
Drinking.
Eating.
Enjoying life the way I want to enjoy it.

That's enough about me. What do YOU do for fun? :)
 

Mjazz

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lifting weights, lifting sandbags, pushing my body to its limit, learning and reading, relaxing
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Try skateboarding. You'll look like a fool at first but you get better with time as long as you keep with it.
 

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Football (soccor)
Ice Hockey
Gym
Computer games (occasionally)
TV + Films
hanging with friends
 

ProDJ26

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1. working out
2. women
3. football
4. video juegos (video games)
 

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hey man, ive got the best things for ya to do, and i go these things and im never bored:

-learn a musical insrument, i'd recommand the piano, its hard in the beginning but its a great instrument for djers.
-find a close gym and go there, go there on bike if u can
-play basket ball in the court down the street
-meet woman
-and i'd recommand skateboarding as the other guy said, its a great sport gor guys, after u can ride it begin with the ollie(might take up to 3months or so to learn), once u get it start kickflips. im a good skateboarder so i can help u with that hehehe
- get sum movies and watch them,
-go out to parties
 

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1.MMA (mostly thai boxing)
2. Working out
3. Cooking and school (i go to cooking school)
4. Girls (distant 4th because MMA and working out will suck up your money if your passionate about it and get privates)
5. your mom? lol jk
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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escobar04 said:
hey fellas, havent been here ina while so I came crawling back as usual when times get tough

so what do you guys do for fun? snowboard? dirtbike? por-wrestle, collect flowers?

the reason im asking is cos Im deadly bored with life with no friends or any typa relationships, I have a feeling that Imma about to get fired from my minimum wage job, Im good at nothing so maybe I can find some new inspiration(s)

thanks
These are also aspects of my career.

Ventriloquist
Magician
Graphic Designer
Caricaturist
Event Videography.

I made a couple hundred today, not too shabby.

In addition, I enjoy pool and playing Chess. I'm also (again, sort of for my career) picking up HTML, PHP and MySQL for my own website.
 
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