"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what's you hobby?

escobar04

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hey fellas, havent been here ina while so I came crawling back as usual when times get tough

so what do you guys do for fun? snowboard? dirtbike? por-wrestle, collect flowers?

the reason im asking is cos Im deadly bored with life with no friends or any typa relationships, I have a feeling that Imma about to get fired from my minimum wage job, Im good at nothing so maybe I can find some new inspiration(s)

thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Docs

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Computer God.
Pool/Billards Player.
Social Person.
Road Trips.
Sleeping.
Drinking.
Eating.
Enjoying life the way I want to enjoy it.

That's enough about me. What do YOU do for fun? :)
 

Mjazz

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lifting weights, lifting sandbags, pushing my body to its limit, learning and reading, relaxing
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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epitome

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Try skateboarding. You'll look like a fool at first but you get better with time as long as you keep with it.
 

Modro

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Football (soccor)
Ice Hockey
Gym
Computer games (occasionally)
TV + Films
hanging with friends
 

ProDJ26

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1. working out
2. women
3. football
4. video juegos (video games)
 

Georgey

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hey man, ive got the best things for ya to do, and i go these things and im never bored:

-learn a musical insrument, i'd recommand the piano, its hard in the beginning but its a great instrument for djers.
-find a close gym and go there, go there on bike if u can
-play basket ball in the court down the street
-meet woman
-and i'd recommand skateboarding as the other guy said, its a great sport gor guys, after u can ride it begin with the ollie(might take up to 3months or so to learn), once u get it start kickflips. im a good skateboarder so i can help u with that hehehe
- get sum movies and watch them,
-go out to parties
 

Livinlifehard

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1.MMA (mostly thai boxing)
2. Working out
3. Cooking and school (i go to cooking school)
4. Girls (distant 4th because MMA and working out will suck up your money if your passionate about it and get privates)
5. your mom? lol jk
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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escobar04 said:
hey fellas, havent been here ina while so I came crawling back as usual when times get tough

so what do you guys do for fun? snowboard? dirtbike? por-wrestle, collect flowers?

the reason im asking is cos Im deadly bored with life with no friends or any typa relationships, I have a feeling that Imma about to get fired from my minimum wage job, Im good at nothing so maybe I can find some new inspiration(s)

thanks
These are also aspects of my career.

Ventriloquist
Magician
Graphic Designer
Caricaturist
Event Videography.

I made a couple hundred today, not too shabby.

In addition, I enjoy pool and playing Chess. I'm also (again, sort of for my career) picking up HTML, PHP and MySQL for my own website.
 
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