"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When just walking up to a random girl, and making it clear that you want to go out with her?

For example-

Hot chick walking down hallway
I walk up and say "Hey!"
She says "Hi"
I say "I think your cute and was wondering if you would like to go out for lunch sometime" and smile...

I've only tried this once, and I was nervous as hell... but she smiled and said she had a boyfriend, then she apoligized a few times... (she really did have a boyfriend... found out later)

I mean, screw it, you got to be confident as hell to do that...

EDIT: The reason I ask is because I am sorta considering doing it again... but idk...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dunno man that sounds scary, maybe you shouldnt do that.








.....Ya do it again, I gurantee do it at least 10 times in 1 week and I guarantee you'll wonder why the fvck you were so scared of this in the 1st place. I wouldnt use the lunch thing though, just ask for a phone number fitst. Dont you think it'd seem really creepy if someone went up to you and asked to eat lunch with you on another day?
 
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Kinda, but at the same time I wouldn't want a complete stranger to call me either...
 
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What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.
 
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MooseGod said:
What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.
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Aye, I guess I am doubting myself. Right now, I am not... IDK... practice makes perfect I guess...

Starting is the hardest part... :-\ I mean, if I did ask ten different girls for their numbers you know that not everyone is going to say yes... but if just ONE does, then I would feel good about it...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't focus on the number first.... focus on making them feel a spark when they talk to you. Once you got that, you can say anything you want.
 
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