"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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2nd_Chance

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When just walking up to a random girl, and making it clear that you want to go out with her?

For example-

Hot chick walking down hallway
I walk up and say "Hey!"
She says "Hi"
I say "I think your cute and was wondering if you would like to go out for lunch sometime" and smile...

I've only tried this once, and I was nervous as hell... but she smiled and said she had a boyfriend, then she apoligized a few times... (she really did have a boyfriend... found out later)

I mean, screw it, you got to be confident as hell to do that...

EDIT: The reason I ask is because I am sorta considering doing it again... but idk...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I dunno man that sounds scary, maybe you shouldnt do that.








.....Ya do it again, I gurantee do it at least 10 times in 1 week and I guarantee you'll wonder why the fvck you were so scared of this in the 1st place. I wouldnt use the lunch thing though, just ask for a phone number fitst. Dont you think it'd seem really creepy if someone went up to you and asked to eat lunch with you on another day?
 
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Kinda, but at the same time I wouldn't want a complete stranger to call me either...
 
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What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.
 
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MooseGod said:
What if you just met the most charming stranger in the world though? One of those kind of people that instantly makes your day better by being around them? Someone interesting and different than the rest of the pathetic fools that make up today's world? That's where being a true Don Juan comes in.
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Aye, I guess I am doubting myself. Right now, I am not... IDK... practice makes perfect I guess...

Starting is the hardest part... :-\ I mean, if I did ask ten different girls for their numbers you know that not everyone is going to say yes... but if just ONE does, then I would feel good about it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't focus on the number first.... focus on making them feel a spark when they talk to you. Once you got that, you can say anything you want.
 
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